End of the Day, Head Pounding… Can’t Even Sleep
You’ve worked all day and finally got home, but your head is throbbing. The back of your neck is stiff, your forehead feels heavy and foggy. Even when you lie down to sleep, the pulsing pain keeps you awake.
Most nighttime headaches are caused by muscle tension and eye fatigue accumulated throughout the day. It gets especially worse on days when you’ve stared at a monitor for long hours or experienced a lot of stress.
You don’t want to take medication before bed… That’s when this 5-minute self-massage you can do right in bed comes in handy. It relieves headaches and helps induce deep sleep.
STEP 1: Fengchi (GB20) Massage — Release Back-of-Neck Tension (1 min 30 sec)
Staring at a monitor all day causes the muscles at the back of your neck to become tightly knotted. Fengchi is the key acupoint for directly releasing this tension.
- While lying down, bring both hands behind your head
- Find the hollow spots where your neck meets the skull with your thumbs
- Slowly press upward (toward the skull) for 5 seconds
- Rest for 3 seconds, then press again for 5 seconds — repeat 10 times
- Finish by making small circles with your thumbs for 30 seconds
STEP 2: Taiyang (EX-HN5) Relaxation — Release Temple Tension (1 min)
- Gently place your middle fingers on your temples
- Close your eyes and slowly massage in circles for 30 seconds
- Then gently press and hold for 5 seconds, 6 times
- Breathing deeply while doing this makes it more effective
STEP 3: Baihui (GV20) Tapping — Clear Your Mind (1 min)
- Lightly tap the crown of your head with your fingertips (30 seconds)
- Gradually slow the tapping rhythm — at the end, simply rest your fingers on your head for 5 seconds
- Your whole head feels lighter and your eyes naturally close
STEP 4: Neck and Shoulder Stretching (1 min 30 sec)
- Side neck tilts: Slowly tilt your right ear toward your right shoulder, hold for 10 seconds, then switch sides
- Chin tuck: While lying down, pull your chin toward your chest so the back of your neck stretches — hold for 10 seconds
- Shoulder shrugs: Raise your shoulders up to your ears, then release and let them drop — 5 times
Bedtime Routine Timeline
| Order | Movement | Duration | Effect |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Fengchi massage | 1 min 30 sec | Release back-of-neck tension |
| 2 | Taiyang relaxation | 1 min | Relieve temple pain |
| 3 | Baihui tapping | 1 min | Brain relaxation, sleep induction |
| 4 | Neck/shoulder stretching | 1 min 30 sec | Muscle relaxation |
Additional Tips for Better Sleep
- Pillow height: Ideally, your neck should be straight when lying down (usually 6–8 cm)
- Room temperature: 18–20°C (64–68°F) is optimal for sleep
- No smartphones: Block blue light at least 30 minutes before bed
- Lavender scent: A drop of lavender oil near your pillow helps with relaxation
Frequently Asked Questions
Does acupressure before bed also help with sleep?
Yes! Fengchi and facial acupoint massage activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which also helps induce sleep. It’s a two-for-one benefit: headache relief plus better sleep.
Can I do this while lying down?
Yes, lying down is actually more effective because your neck and shoulders are more relaxed. Try lying flat without a pillow.
Is it better to use aroma oils together?
Applying a small amount of peppermint or lavender oil to your temples before massaging adds headache relief and relaxation benefits.
How many minutes before bed should I do this?
Start about 15–20 minutes before bed. If you lie down right after acupressure, you can fall asleep while still in a relaxed state.
Why do I often get headaches at night?
Muscle tension, stress, and eye fatigue accumulated throughout the day all hit at once in the evening. An improper pillow height can also cause nighttime headaches.

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